No ke aha ʻoe e kiki ai i mua o kāu hoa? - HEALTH PLUS MAG

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Hōʻawi ʻia e kā mākou mau hoa hana mai HuffPost, hāʻawi kēia mau anamanaʻo ma ka ʻaʻā i kahi nui hou i ka palahalaha. Wahi a kēia mau kumumanaʻo, mai makaʻu hou i ke kinoea e hoʻoikaika paha i ka male. I kekahi mau hihia, hiki i kēia ke hōʻino i ka wahine. 

He hilahila e hoʻomau i ka wā makua

Inā hilahila mākou i ka neʻe ʻana i mua o kā mākou hoa, ʻoiai ma ke kuʻikahi, no ka mea aia ka stigmatization o kēia kumuhana mai ka wā kamaliʻi. ʻAʻole kūleʻa ʻo Shannon Chavez, psychologist a me sexologist. "Manaʻo ʻia ka ʻāʻī he mea hoʻowahāwahā, haumia, pilau a nani ʻole" wahi a ka loea nāna i hoʻohui e hoʻomau a hiki i ka wā makua a ʻoi loa i kā mākou pili. No ia, pili kēia manaʻoʻiʻo ke manaʻo kekahi e kāohi ʻia a hoʻohilahila ʻia paha e ka manaʻo wale o ka ʻū ʻana i mua o kā lākou hoa. Eia naʻe, ʻaʻole kolohe nā kāne e ʻaʻa nei e lawe i ka ʻanuʻu o ka paʻakikī hou ʻana i kēia kumuhana. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻoikaika i kā lākou hui ʻana mahalo i kēia ʻenekini. 

"He hōʻailona olakino kēia" 

ʻO Gary Brown, ka mea male a me ka ʻohana therapist e hoʻoneʻe i ka pāpā i koe i ka wahine e pili ana i ka ʻaila. "He hōʻailona olakino ia e ʻoluʻolu ʻoe me kēlā me kēia e ʻumeʻume," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia. No ka psychologist, hiki i nā kāne ʻaʻole hilahila ke hana me kekahi i kekahi ke hiki ke hoʻokō ʻia i ka moena. ʻOi aku ke ʻike ʻoe i ka moekolohe ka pelu o ka wahine. ʻAʻole hana hewa nā kāne hauʻoli i ka wā o ka moekolohe.  E pili ana i nā farts, wehewehe ka loea no ka ʻae ʻia ʻana o kona kino a me kēia mau hanana kūlohelohe. "E pōmaikaʻi paha ke kanaka mai nā ʻano stimulate a me ka moekolohe me ka liʻiliʻi o ka pāpā, ka makaʻu a me ka palekana ʻole." Wahi a Shannon Chavez nāna i kāhea no ka normalize ʻana i ka ʻaʻā. ʻOiai hiki i kēia ke hoʻoikaika i ka hoʻomohala ʻana o ka wahine, hiki i kēia maʻamau ke lilo i mea ʻino no ka pili aloha.

"He laʻana ia no ka mahalo ʻole ʻia"

ʻOiai ʻae kekahi mau loea i ka hewa ʻole o ka makaʻu ʻana i mua o kāu hoa, ʻaʻole hāʻawi kekahi i ka moʻolelo like. ʻO kēia ka hihia o Kurt Smith, kahi loea i loea i ke aʻo ʻana i nā kāne. Ua ʻae ʻo ia i kēia ʻano maʻamau i kekahi manawa he hōʻailona o ke oʻo a me ka ʻae ʻia i ka pilina akā aia he ʻokoʻa. "E ʻōlelo kāua inā kihi kou hoa i mua ou a haʻi ʻoe iā lākou i hōʻoluʻolu ʻole iā ʻoe, hōʻike ia ʻaʻole mahalo ʻo ia i kāu mau makemake. He hōʻailona maikaʻi ʻole ia, ”kālailai ʻo ia. No ia, ʻo ka makaʻu i mua o kāna hoa hōʻoluʻolu ʻaʻole ia he ʻano olakino maikaʻi. "ʻO kēia kahi laʻana o ka hōʻihi ʻole e hiki ke ʻike ʻia i nā ana ʻē aʻe o ka pilina," i ʻōlelo aʻo aku ai i ka loea ʻelua. Inā ʻaʻala ka ʻaʻā, pono ʻoe e hoʻāʻo ʻaʻole e paʻa wale no ka mea maikaʻi ia no ke olakino.

ʻO ke kamaʻilio ke kī

Panina: ʻaʻohe mea ʻino i ka makaʻu ʻana inā ʻoluʻolu nā hoa āpau me ia. Ke ʻaʻole kēia ka hihia, he mea nui e aniani i mua o ka hōʻike o kēia hanana kūlohelohe i loaʻa, no kekahi, e noho i ka pilikino. "E hoʻāʻo wale e hāpai i kēia kumuhana me ka hoʻokolokolo ʻole e hoʻohaʻahaʻa i ka hilahila, "aʻoaʻo ʻo Gary Brown. Paipai pū ʻo ia e kaʻana like me kahi kanaka ʻē aʻe e hoʻopilikia ana ka ʻāʻī i kou manaʻo a pīhoihoi ʻoe e lohe a lohe. 

Maikaʻi ka maikaʻi o ka fart a kāu hoa

Ma mua o ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i kāu mau paʻa me kāu hoa e like me ka manaʻo o kekahi loea, hiki i ka fart ke loaʻa nā ʻano maikaʻi i ʻoi aku ma mua o ka noho maikaʻi ʻana o ka wahine. Hiki i ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana i kāu ʻōkuhi ke holo ahi ke kōkua i ka mālama ʻana i kāu mea aloha. Kēia like i paʻi ʻia i loko o ka puke pai ʻO Chemical Communication hōʻike e hiki ke hoʻonui i ka lōʻihi o ka mea e manaʻo iā lākou. A no ke kumu kūpono, e like me ka mea noiʻi noiʻi pono ka hydrogen sulfide no pale i ka pōʻino mitochondrial- hoʻopili ʻia i ka ʻelemakule o nā pūnaewele Kākoʻo ʻo Kauka Mark Wood, Luna Hoʻokele o ka noiʻi i kēia hanana. "ʻOiai ʻo hydrogen sulfide ka mea i ʻike ʻia he pungent, ʻaʻala ʻaʻala i nā hua pala a me ka palahalaha, hana maoli ʻia ia i loko o ke kino a hiki ke lilo i koa olakino," haʻi ʻia ka loea. Wahi a kēia mau hopena, hiki i ka hope ke pale i nā maʻi he nui e like me nā maʻi o ka maʻi puʻuwai. Inā hoʻoweliweli ʻoe i ka lehulehu i ka lehulehu no ka mea he gas ʻoe, hiki iā ʻoe ke kaua aku i kēia maʻi e pili ana i ka digestion.

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